He who is extremely bothered by what people say ill of him is really guilty of what they say bad of him. I always cite with my own self: many have assumed & presumed that I am really nasty and fake, that I deceive others around me whom
they see as fools. But those ill words they utter concerning me don’t have effects on my destiny because I believe in my own destiny, & I’m not guilty of all they say about me: they are living in presumptions.
That reminds me, someone of recent told me that I can’t deceive her like I do to others, whom she referred to as fools, [maybe she was expecting me to be shirty but I only burst into mirth, at least she has spewed out her mind about me]. I said to her after giving her every time on earth to express herself: “if you believe I deceive them, then, boldly work up to them, try your best to convince them that they are under my deceits, make them to believe you; once this is done, then invite me over before them with your concrete evidence & you will prove me wrong]. I hate cowards, who talk at people’s absence but can’t even challenge the shadows of those they despise.
My dear, everyone can’t be your best friend, & you can’t be everyone’s best friend: to someone out there I’m a fake friend, & you might be someone’s good friend & another’s fake pal. Just be yourself, be real. Do what you know best to do which is good: for that is what you will be known for, “WHAT YOU FOND OF DOING IS WHAT YOU’LL ALWAYS BE FOUND TO BE DOING.” -NDJP; Each person you come across in your life must not be good, learn good from those who are good & endeavor to do the good; observe bad from those who are bad, not for the essence of doing it, but to know evidently that it’s bad.
Furthermore, don’t pay attention to those who talk evil of you: show them wisdom, let them talk, forgive them, greet them but be careful with them. “Many people may say that you deceive yourself &/or even others, but only you can mostly perceive your mindset.” -NDJP. Don’t give up because people think you can’t make it to the top, keep moving because only God has the final say on your life as a child of God.
You must not be my best friend, I must not be your best friend, friendship is all about the possibility of the true compatibility of two psyches. Know/discover your flairs: your natural endowment, keep doing it & try to do it well. I am good in writing, many people I have come across in life know me for that. It doesn’t matter your impoverished background, if you’re destined & determined, you can soar far above the ground up to the height at which the whole cosmos can behold you. Don’t be limited by friends you make or by the people you listen to.
MANY PEOPLE I HAVE ENCOUNTERED IN LIFE HAVE TAUGHT ME LESSONS & MY DEALINGS WITH THEM HAVE GIVEN ME GREAT EXPERIENCES.
YOU MUST NOT BE MY VERY CLOSE FRIEND, DON’T FORCE PEOPLE INTO YOUR LIFE, ALLOW THOSE YOU LIKE TO DEFINE THEIR INTEREST IN YOU.
To make things to be RIGHT, then you have to do things ARIGHT; and never you be HOPELESS just because you think you are HELPLESS —the worries of a hopeless man could fill more than billions of lorries so long his hopelessness tarries.
REMEMBER: if happiness were madness, your enemies would be making you happy every second so that you would always be mad; and many would have resorted to absolute sadness in order for them not to experience madness, but thanks be to God it ain’t so. Value the values in you, be content with the contents in you: every great, good and successful achiever is a meticulous treasurer of talismans.
MAY GOD HELP YOU TO DEFINE YOUR DESTINY!
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